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“矛盾友谊”理论 为何朋友老是过得比你开心

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在社交网站总能出现什么情侣甜蜜出游的恩爱照、就是谁又换新车、买新包、新手机、美食等。此时很多人会想,为什么别人都过得这么好,我却没有?

对此,专家提出解释,这一切全是社交网站惹得祸,“为何朋友老是过得比你开心”的原因,提出“矛盾友谊”理论。

这是因为你太关注这些过得比你好的“特殊”朋友,因此常常拿来与自己比较,让自己陷入不开心、悲伤的状态,而忘记其实身边大部分的朋友处境与你相同,并不是每个人都过得比你好,因此这也被称为“偏差样本”,所以会有一种永远觉得自己“比上不足”的感觉。

专家建议,与其浪费时间去羡慕他人,不如减少时间上社交网站会让你过得更快乐。